______, I give you this ring, wear it with love and joy. I choose you to be my hus­band: to have and to hold, from this day for­ward. For bet­ter, for worse, for rich­er for poor­er; in sick­ness and in health; to have and to cher­ish, as long as we both shall live. And here­to, I pledge you my faith­ful­ness to show to you the same kind of love as Christ showed the Church when He died for her, and to love you as a part of my­self be­cause in His sight we shall be one.