(Name), to­day I take you for my (wife/husband). I promise to love you with­out reser­va­tion, com­fort you in times of dis­tress, en­cour­age you to achieve all of your goals, laugh with you and cry with you, grow with you in mind, and spir­it, al­ways be open and hon­est with you, and cher­ish you for as long as we both shall live.