Groom: I, ____, take you, ____, to be my wed­ded wife. With deep­est joy I re­ceive you in­to my life that to­geth­er we may be one.

As is Christ to His body, the church, so I will be to you a lov­ing and faith­ful hus­band. Al­ways will I per­form my head­ship over you even as Christ does over me, know­ing that His Lord­ship is one of the holi­est de­sires for my life.
I promise you my deep­est love, my fullest de­vo­tion, my ten­der­ness care. I promise I will live first un­to God rather than oth­ers or even you. I promise that I will lead our lives in­to a life of faith and hope in Christ Je­sus.
Ever hon­or­ing God’s guid­ance by His spir­it through the Word, and so through­out life, no mat­ter what may lie ahead of us, I pledge to you my life as a lov­ing and faith­ful hus­band.

Bride: I, ___, take you, ____, to be my wed­ded hus­band. With deep­est joy I come in­to my new life with you. As you have pledged to me your life and love, so I too hap­pi­ly give you my life, and in con­fi­dence sub­mit my­self to your head­ship as to the Lord.
As is the church in her re­la­tion­ship to Christ, so I will be to you. ___, I will live first un­to our God and then un­to you, lov­ing you, obey­ing you, car­ing for you and ever seek­ing to please you. God has pre­pared me for you and so I will ever strength­en, help, com­fort, and en­cour­age you.
There­fore, through­out life, no mat­ter what may be ahead of us, I pledge to you my life as an obe­di­ent and faith­ful wife.