_____, I promise, to re­spect you as an in­di­vid­ual, with in­ter­ests, de­sires, and needs as im­por­tant as my own. To be your part­ner in cel­e­brat­ing our suc­cess­es and fac­ing our chal­lenges. To be a lov­ing (husband/wife) to you, and con­tribute dai­ly to the health, com­fort, and bal­ance of our re­la­tion­ship. I promise to keep my­self open to you, and to con­tin­u­ous­ly de­light in the priv­i­lege of shar­ing my life with you.