_____, I promise to love you and to val­ue your friend­ship as a pre­cious gift. I look for­ward to rais­ing our fam­i­ly, and build­ing our re­la­tion­ship, un­der the care and guid­ance of God. I promise to stand be­side you in sick­ness or health, in times of pros­per­i­ty and de­cline, in peace and in tur­moil, as long as we both shall live.