I, (Name), take you, (Name), to be my law­ful wife (hus­band). I will try to be a lov­ing wife (hus­band). I promise to re­spect you as an in­di­vid­ual. I want to de­vel­op as a per­son in part­ner­ship with you. I want to love you through good for­tune and ad­ver­si­ty, while we both shall live.