I, (Bride’s Name), take (you/thee), (Groom’s Name), to be my [opt: law­ful­ly wed­ded] hus­band, se­cure in the knowl­edge that you will be my con­stant friend, my faith­ful part­ner in life, and my one true love.
On this spe­cial [opt: and holy] day, I (affirm/reaffirm/give) to you in the pres­ence of God and (all those in attendance/these wit­ness­es) my (pledge/sacred promise) to stay by your side as your [opt: faith­ful] wife in sick­ness and in health, in joy and in sor­row, as well as through the good times and the bad.

I (promise/further promise) to love you with­out reser­va­tion, com­fort you in times of dis­tress, en­cour­age you to achieve (higher/all of your) goals, laugh with you and cry with you, grow with you in mind and spir­it, al­ways be open and hon­est with you, and cher­ish you for as long as we both shall live.

I, (Groom’s Name), take (you/thee), (Bride’s Name), to be my [opt: law­ful­ly wed­ded] wife, know­ing in my heart that you will be my con­stant friend, my faith­ful part­ner in life, and my one true love. On this spe­cial [opt: and holy] day, I (affirm/reaffirm/give) to you in the pres­ence of God and (all those in attendance/these wit­ness­es) my (pledge/sacred promise) to stay by your side as your [opt: faith­ful] hus­band in sick­ness and in health, in joy and in sor­row, as well as through the good times and the bad.
I (promise/further promise) to love you with­out reser­va­tion, hon­or and re­spect you, pro­vide for your needs as best I can, pro­tect you from harm, com­fort you in times of dis­tress, grow with you in mind and spir­it, al­ways be open and hon­est with you, and cher­ish you for as long as we both shall live.