I ______, take you, ______, to be my law­ful husband/wife. I will be a lov­ing hus­band. I promise to re­spect you as an in­di­vid­ual. I in­tend to de­vel­op as a per­son in part­ner­ship with you. I want to love you through good for­tune and ad­ver­si­ty, while we both shall live.