_____, I take you to be my wife/husband from this time on­ward,
to join with you and to share all that is to come, to be your faith­ful husband/wife,
to give and to re­ceive, to speak and to lis­ten, to in­spire and to re­spond;
a com­mit­ment made in love, kept in faith, and eter­nal­ly made new.