(Name), to­day I take you to be my (husband/wife). To­geth­er we will cre­ate a home, be­com­ing a part of one an­oth­er. I vow to help cre­ate a life that we can cher­ish, in­spir­ing your love for me and mine for you. I vow to be hon­est, car­ing and truth­ful, to love you as you are and not as I want you to be, and to grow old by your side as your love and best friend.