Name, to­day I be­come your (husband/wife) and you be­come my (wife/husband). I will strive to give you the best of my­self, while ac­cept­ing you the way you are. I promise to re­spect you as a whole per­son with your own in­ter­ests, de­sires, and needs, and to re­al­ize that those are some­times dif­fer­ent, but no less im­por­tant than my own. I promise to keep my­self open to you, to let you in to my in­ner­most fears and feel­ings, se­crets and dreams. I promise to grow along with you, to be will­ing to face change as we both change, keep­ing our re­la­tion­ship alive and ex­cit­ing. And fi­nal­ly, I promise to love you in good times and in bad, with all I have to give and all that I am, in the on­ly way I know how — com­plete­ly and for­ev­er