_____, I take you to be my husband/wife, from this time on­ward; to join with you and to share all that is to come; to be your faith­ful husband/wife; to give and to re­ceive; to speak and to lis­ten; to in­spire and to re­spond; a com­mit­ment made in love, kept in faith, and eter­nal­ly made new.